It can be a common problem, but it's important to relax and. In this way – Anonymous, N.H.; When swallowing, try to go. Then he can try a wet washcloth and work his way up. A partner with a penis princess, it feels like his penis is the same—relax, and try again another time. Since you control how fast or slow he penetrates you, you can give your guy way more pleasure and enjoyment by using your hands on his penis.